The Fundamentals Of Failure

 

What is a failure

Failure is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective and may be viewed as the opposite of success. The criteria for failure depend on context and may be relative to a particular observer or belief system. What one person considers a failure,  another person might consider a success, particularly in cases of direct competition or a zero-sum game. Similarly, the degree of success or failure in a situation may be differently viewed by different observers or participants, for example,  a situation that one considers  a failure, another might consider it a success, a qualified success or a neutral situation.

               

                              What is the failure in life

Failure is defined as a lack of success or the inability to meet an expectation. The problem is that we can read too much into failure. Too often, we tie it to our sense of self-worth, self-esteem, and self-acceptance. The expectation we fail to meet is often our own, or one that we've created in our head.

                  

When we are on this journey of life, we tend to set a lot of short-term goals and when we don’t achieve them, we don’t know how to deal with failure and that is something we all deal with a lot, but in that moment when we can look back and say yeah this is fine but in that moment how do we hold our ground and how do we learn to see the larger picture?

There is no such thing as failure. Failure is an idea because success is also a stupid idea. Instead of trying to change the world, change the idea. If you just change that, everything is great. If you were a beggar on the street today, if you could walk into the restaurant, and eat a dosa, this would be the height of success, wouldn't it?

       From where does success come from

How do we overcome the fear of disappointment or failure? Every idea, thought, emotion or value that you have is picked up from somewhere and it rules you from within. This idea of success is not even your idea. It is somebody else’s idea of what success is. Your religion, your society and your culture have trained you to believe that this is it.

  Don’t become a slave of somebody’s idea

The first and foremost thing of which you don’t have to be slave of is SUCCESS. Success and failure is not in the volumes of money flowing in your life. Success and failure is not dependent on recognition that you find in the world. You are successful with life if you know how to walk with joy even through hell.

                                  Failure is a great blessing

Many things that don’t work out in your early life, you will see later on, it is a blessing. If you put yourself through the most horrible situations, either you can come out using that experience as a better human being or you can use the experience to become a horrible mess!!!

Whenever something hurts you, there are two options, you either become wounded or you can become wise, this is the choice. 

Unfortunately, most people become wounded

This is simply because they just need an excuse to turn their own intelligence against themselves, that’s all. Especially, if the world around you turns against you, is it not very important that your intelligence stands for you?         

                                       

                           Coming to the facts

                    What should be done if you want to deal with failure

•They Keep Failure in Proper Perspective. …

•They Practice Self-Compassion. ... 

•They Choose to Be Grateful. ... 

•They Respect Their Vulnerabilities. ... 

•They Acknowledge Their Strengths. ... 

•They Create a Plan to Become Better. ... 

♪|They Maintain a Healthy Self-Worth….

                                             Conclusion

Most unexpectedly, life will throw something at you that you did not imagine possible.The more active you are, the more unexpected things happen to you. So, instead of trying to control what life throws at you,  Equip yourself in such a way, no matter what life throws at you, you will make it into a wonderful possibility. If this one thing is done, within the human being, this human being will blossom to a full-fledged life, and this is the aspiration of every life- to full-fledged life.