Being Stable In Difficult Situation

   Why aren’t people stable in difficult times

Nowadays, almost every disease is curable, if not curable, it’s treatable, There are a

number of treatments for a single ailment. There are medicines for every ailment. 

Yet, illnesses have increased. Complications regarding health have increased. Because complications are not in your body, Where are the difficulties actually present?     

In today’s scenario, people put it very nicely: “Relations have become so complicated these days. Earlier relationships were easy. But these days relations are difficult to handle.”

Is it that relations have become problematic?

Else, knots never come in the relations. Knots come to mind. And we must release the knots from our mind and brain. Lumps develop later in our body, even if treated well by a doctor

If they remain in our mind for a long time, we are prone to develop lumps or in other words tumors in our body.

                                        Is life a roller coaster!                       

As will be my state of mind, so will be my experience throughout the day. If my brain is irritable today, hence my mood is not good, how will I wake up feeling in the morning? 

This entire terrain of life is uneven. How we walk on it, depends on our state of mind. And how we’ll walk on it, that will be the experience of our walk. When we start walking on the terrain of life, we need to be careful and aware. Which means during every walk on terrein called life, some situations arise which are favourable and some are unfavourable. But while moving on this path, life, at first we need to be well- equipped. 

But moving on in our life is simple for some, but uneasy for a number of people and difficult for a huge chunk of people. It depends from person to person, how we assume our life to be. Suddenly our life state goes down, suddenly it rises and then once again it goes down.

Hence we assume that life is a roller coaster. But it’s not that life, it’s the situations which arise in our life is a roller coaster.  

                  What are the difficult situations we face

Someone has all the physical comforts and someone has nothing. There are no challenges in a person’s life whereas there are several challenges in other’s life. But if one is sad and the other is happy, it is decided in our mind or brain.

The situations unfolding today are not smooth, are definitely not smooth and life is unpredictable. Sudden illness, sudden betrayal in any relationship, sudden loss of job, sudden loss in business which was running profitably. At times something happens to a family member all of a sudden.

Situations in life today are sudden & unpredictable. It is a time of uncertainty or unpredictability. We are living in those times. A few years ago, life was certain to a good extent. We want to walk on a smooth road, when an obstacle comes in our path, we assume that this obstacle is diverting our smooth road, but little did we realise that our path was not smooth, the diversion was bound to come in our life. No life in this world is free from difficulties, everyone is facing some trouble or the other, some financial, some physical, some emotional, some mental, and some face all the four. It depends from person to person how we face the situation

How should we face difficult situations   

 

Everyone has to face a difficult situation in our lives. How we face the situation is what matters. Quoting a very beautiful quote here, “What’s in the way, is the way”. Why did the situation arise, doesn’t matter, why did so and so person said this to me, doesn’t matter. The thing that matters is what sort of Karmas we did that instigated that situation or instigated that person to say such and such things to me. It hardly matters that we did the wrong karmas now or years before or in our past lives, we will have to face and pay for the repercussions we created, here itself. But if we want to end our karmic account here itself and not to carry anything further in our next life, we will have to learn to forgive and forget.

Hence, when we reach that peak of taking life in your stride, no matter what happens to us, we will undoubtedly face, without getting our inner self and our soul disturbed, then we will be on the path of ultimate salvation, which everyone aspires and wants to achieve