Is it important to rebel, so to exist

 Our target in our life is happiness and we all want to be happy in some way or the other.

                             To live a happy life it requires balancing.

  The one thing calculated to make life easier and more meaningful is knowing 

                                     When to say YES

The values and patterns of life have changed to a great extent. Today, everybody likes to live and behave in his own way. This attitude has enlarged the generation gap, which is becoming wider day by day. That went before it and wiser than the one that comes after it                                               

                                What causes a person to be rebellious?

Many, if not all, rebels are psychologically driven by a false sense of superiority and wounded sense of powerlessness stemming from early childhood experiences.  Their rebelliousness can be seen as a compensatory mechanism. If you understand this, it can help you feel compassion for the rebels.

                                      Is it good to be rebellious

Most importantly, recognize that being a rebel doesn't automatically make you better than everyone else. This way, things start worsening at one’s end who is rebellious. 

A  lot of people use their rebellious nature to feed their ego, and it becomes a defence mechanism. They start to think, “Oh, I've got better ideas".

On the contrary, Rebels make the world a more colourful place. They create great music, art, food, and interesting approaches for the rest of us. The world will never be boring as long as rebels work that magic. It's important for a Rebel not to suppress what makes them great for fear of what others may say.

Rebels are people who break rules that should be broken. They break rules that hold them and others back, and their way of rule-breaking is constructive rather than destructive. It creates positive change. 

At times when things are not good and you feel a particular community or you yourself is suppressed, that pattern should 

be broken.

                   It’s perfectly alright to feel sad

•Sadness is part of the ups and downs of life.

•Feeling sad can prompt you to make choices that improve your life.

•Sadness is not depression.

•You can learn to manage your sadness

What's it called when you can't feel what you need to feel in a certain situation

Feeling numb can make it hard to connect with others, which creates loneliness or a sense of isolation in your experience. Emotional numbness, also called “affective blunting”,is most commonly associated with depression. It can also occur with other mental health conditions and medications.

                                  What are The 5 negative emotions?

Anger, fear, resentment, frustration, and anxiety are negative emotional states that many people experience regularly but try to avoid 

                 

Don’t keep mum when you have to speak . Speak up when required for you and for others like you to love a good life

The phrase “keeping mum,” as in “to stay silent,” has its origins in the 14th century, and there are a number of related phrases which also use “mum,” illustrating the many ways in which a language can diverge through daily use…

Professionals from all walks of life who come with one key problem – they can’t speak up for themselves or assert their boundaries. In many cases, their boundaries are non-existent, which translates into their allowing anyone to do anything they wish to them.

These individuals are being disrespected, devalued and trampled on, in work and in their personal lives. Further, they find they can’t make effective decisions that will help them navigate through the challenges or take the right steps to increase their success. They find they simply can’t tell their boss, “No, this doesn’t work” or speak up to their spouse and say, “Stop this behaviour– it’s damaging to the family!”

But at times we are not able to judge if we are rebellious if we are just asked for something . 

Like teenagers, if they are asked to study by parents they retaliate. But that’s not the right reason to rebel. So use your wisdom when speaking.

Driving fast, breaking curfew, arguing, shoplifting. Teenagers can push your patience, but unfortunately, some kids go as far as blatantly flouting rules or breaking the law, often with tragic results. What's with this rebellious streak? How can parents funnel it into less risky business?

Whereas younger children don't see the flaws in their parents, adolescents suddenly see the world more realistically. "They construct an ideal of what parents should be, based on their friends' parents, on media parents. When they compare their own parents to the ideal, they find them wanting. Their parents don't know how to dress, walk, talk; they're embarrassed," he tells WebMD.

           Ways to improve teenagers not to be rebellious

Talk to them about their sudden rebellious behaviour.

If you're hurt by their behaviour, let them know about it. Tell them how their behaviour has been affecting both of you. Ask them what made them turn into a rebellious teenager. Instead of yelling at them every time they disobey, try being calm and understanding