Remain connected to the source -God

 What is the biggest thing in your life 

You are alive right now. So you are still on tomorrow morning, just one smile, "Wow"! 8 a.m. "Wow", 8 o'clock, still alive. Every hour, just do this exercise. Every hour remind yourself. If you think about God, you become hallucinatory. Only when you are conscious about your mortality will you want to truly know the nature of this life. When you know, you are alright now and tomorrow morning, you may be poof gone; now you want to know, "What the hell? What is it?

Why do people, have fear or phobia of certain things, right from birth 

Does your past life haunt you

I came across a lady, talking to a Spiritual Guru, who was so concerned about her son. She was conveying her plight that she is a national-level swimmer and her husband is a swimmer, too. But her son runs away from the swimming pool. Keeping aside the swimming pool, he's scared of water and that was a very big issue for her because she has already decided in her mind that she wants her son to be a swimmer, on the contrary, he's scared of water.

Then, the Spiritual Guru just shared with her, that does she know, what may be, this soul left the last body, in a condition, where water was the factor. Can you visualise the scene, the last impression on the soul, when the soul leaves the body like that, water, water into my house, my family slipping away, from my hands, I'm trying to save them and everything finished in a minute because there was water, water, water. This is the last impression that's left on the soul. The soul leaves the body and enters another body, forgetting everything but what will be that memory with water? With that soul, the soul has a recording which says water is equal to pain, water is equal to fear, how will that soul go near water?

All this is regarded as Karma of the past life which creates fear. 

How do you deal with such a person, so that he subdues his past life memories? 

Try to accept the person with what fear they have in their mind.

Acceptance means I radiate purity, power, and love to you.  Acceptance is respect, and I respect you as you are. I accept what you mean, I understand your phobia and that there will be no questioning mind and intellect, and this is acceptance.

What will it radiate to the soul, a healing energy?

What is a Karmic theory

When most people talk about karma, they're likely referring to the great law of cause and effect. According to this law, whatever thoughts or energy you put out, you get back — good or bad.  

The theory of karma as causation holds that: 

(1) executed actions of an individual affect the individual and the life he or she lives, and

 (2) the intentions of an individual affect the individual and the life he or she lives.

Remain connected to the source

Remember, only God knows your value and potential.  Throughout the history of mankind, God has sought to overcome the blindness that sin has brought to our lives.

The boundaries of what God can accomplish through us were set long before you were born.  He planned our days before we even lived any of them.

Keep in mind, God wants us to see ourselves and our abilities, in the same way, He sees us.  He put great value on us, and He encourages each step we take toward using even the smallest part of our talents and abilities.

Are we given liberty by God to do our deeds

God has given full authority and freedom to human beings in matters of action. So by the help of His Authority and power were given to us, we perform all deeds. This freedom will lead to questioning at the end of life.

So if we perform good deeds throughout our life then we will be rewarded.

If we perform bad deeds throughout our life then we will be punished.

So God has the right to judge us as he has ordered good deeds but given the freedom to us. Just because he has given us freedom does not mean he has consented to our bad deeds.

How should we pray, according to Nichiren Buddhism

As I have been a practitioner of Nichiren Buddhism for 8yrs 

In contrast to the idea of prayer being passive, prayer in Nichiren Buddhism must be accompanied by making all-out efforts. We pray and work hard for victory in our own lives, for the happiness of others and Kosen-ruff (World Peace). Here we are taught that God does nothing after creating us, if we face troubles and encounter difficulties in life it's not because God is testing our patience or making us suffer uselessly.  It's just because of our Karmas in our past lives and this life in which we have done that we are retributing. Hence, we Buddhists never complain about our circumstances and are not supposed to get angry, if someone says bad words to us, ridicules us or even raises a hand at us, as the other person is spoiling his Karmas, why should we retaliate and spoil our Karmas.

Conclusion

To stay connected to God is that we need to read his Word, spend regular time in prayer, and worship regularly with a clean heart. These things are vital to maintaining our relationship with him. 

Do good to humanity, do good to people around you, do good to your family members, and even if you can't do good, at least be good to everyone around you. This will make our lives easier, and bring us closer to God.