Some very important lessons we should learn in life

 

Working towards being a blissful human being

If that happens, the rest becomes very simple. Because a blissful human being, once your happiness is not at stake, anything that's needed you, will do, isn't it? Right now you cannot do what's needed, because always, your happiness is at stake. You are thinking, which is the right thing to do, what is the right thing to do. There is no right thing to do in your life. There is no wrong thing to do in your life. If you know how not to make the misery of everything that you do, whatever you do is the right thing.

If you are making misery out of everything that you do, everything that you do is the wrong thing. So that's the only issue you have to look at, others are petty things.

What does it matter, which way do you do it? If we want to live a wonderful life, we must acquire certain lessons that we may apply to ourselves.

Here are certain lessons, if we constantly keep in mind, if we want to live a more meaningful existence, 

The first life lesson that we should learn, is:-

•We must learn to kill the lies 

We have to kill what is unnecessary to our lives and decide on what we can do and what we will do.

These small steps will make us in charge of ourselves and will help us move further if your drama is badly directed, only you can make it a good drama and an enjoyable drama. What's happening in your mind is just your drama, you just have to be a better director of things. Your drama must happen your way, the world's drama may not happen your way, it's bigger than you. But at least, what's happening in your head, must happen your way, hence this life is the time to take charge of that.

•We have to break the status quo 

At least once a month, look at your life, and see what you can change about yourself, do small habits and see big changes. That will change your life, and transform you because transforming empty spirituality, talking spirituality, and acting spiritual is no good. Some transformation must happen, isn't it? 

Please make that happen, when you live, people will enjoy living with you. When you die, they will miss you.

That's how one should live.

•We should remember that we are mortal  

We take life for granted and dwell too much on negativity. Every second is ticking away and we must not let any unpleasantness in life consume that. If you just become conscious of this thing that you are always conscious that you are mortal, you don't have to think that you will die today, you don't intend you want to live as far as possible, just you know, one day you will die if you are conscious of this one thing, you will naturally become spiritual, every day, every moment if you remind yourself that this is a brief life, and motto one day I will die. Just do this for two days, and you will become something truly fantastic within. If you know the value of life, just know that it is a brief happening, 

• Live intelligently 

If you were to choose how to live your life between being loving and being hated, you have to settle for what is going to be beneficial not just for us but for everyone around us, as well. Let us create a loving world because in creating one, we are also living intelligently. Whatever humans experience love or hate, whatever happens within them. At least, what happens within you, must happen by your choice. Consciously, you must be able to make it happen if your experience of what is happening within you, is happening by choice, what is the problem if it only happens within you? 

•What is love 

Love is not a relationship, a relationship is a different thing. Love is just an emotion, whether you look at a tree, or a dog, a man, a child, or just the sky, why can't you look at it, lovingly? Because it's not about loving the sky, it's about the sweetness of your emotions. If your emotions are nice and sweet, whatever you look at, you look at it in a certain way. Most of us rely on external factors to attain happiness.

•Determine the quality of your minds 

A big house, a brand-new car, or the latest phone release, all these things should not be the basis of your joy. Indeed these materialistic things make our lives more comfortable, but we should look past that, as the real quality of life. As the real quality of life is simplifying transactions, it is complicated human life, because money is just a process, but a whole lot of people are beginning to think that money is a goal by itself, money is not a goal, please remember it. It is only a process, it's an enabling process, if you want to buy food, you need money, if you want to buy comfort, you need money. But now, if you are trying to buy life with money, you will not succeed. 

•There is intelligence in humility

Everybody is a little bit ignorant, a little bit knowledgeable. They know some things, but they don't know something. Someone who doesn't know anything at all is not burdened by knowledge, because knowledge is accumulation. The difference between an intelligent person and a fool is that the intelligent one knows how foolish he is, but a fool not being aware of your innocence is already in your intelligence as you tend to be humble and appreciative of the things around you all the more.

•There is no good or bad 

If we say something is good, then we consider something else as bad. This should not be the case, we should let things where they are and should not taint them without prejudice. 

So, what is good, and what is bad is only contextual for those times and those societies, because good or bad is judged by what consequences it generates, it is not by the actions, you people are cutting people's bodies.

This is like murder, but with good intentions, if the consequences are good it is surgery, if the consequences are bad, it's called murder. If you look at it carefully, there are no good things, no bad things. 

Conclusion 

People perform actions, and some actions produce miserable consequences, and some produce wonderful consequences, that's all it's about.

As you incorporate these teachings in your life, are you ready to make changes?