Selfishness - Man and his essential nature

 What is selfishness 

Selfishness can be defined as being concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself: seeking or concentrating on one's advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others. : arising from concern with one's welfare or advantage in disregard for others

What is a selfish person like 

Selfish people may prioritise their own petty needs above the significant needs of others. For example, a person is exhibiting selfishness when he or she steals money from their mother to buy a comic book. Some mental health problems can contribute to the development of selfishness.

What causes selfishness in a person 

"People who are 'selfish' tend to have been raised in environments in which their feelings, thoughts, and needs weren't recognized or valued."

Selfishness really seems to have its roots in the term narcissism. It is a behaviour that is both genetic and environmental. It is maintained by innate tendencies and influenced by temperament as well as external learning from parents and others throughout a child's development.

 

Does selfishness help

Selfishness doesn't have to be a bad thing. It can be good to be a little selfish to take care of your emotional, mental, and physical well-being. Many people who focus entirely on give, give, and give end up overwhelmed, fatigued, and stressed.

What happens when selfishness turns into self-obsession

Self-obsession means we are more prone to worry and mental health problems. Selfishness may make it easier for us to fall into traps like an addiction. Our selfishness can mean we hurt others as we ruthlessly strive to satisfy our own needs. Self-centeredness can damage our reputation and lead to loneliness 

How does selfishness cause destruction in the world?

Selfishness leads to a crumpled mentality and loss in the long run. Loss because those who give away nothing receive nothing. We may lose items while we start out as selfless but slowly people return the benefits in different ways. Help comes in various ways when we give selflessly

Coming to Theory 

What is Selfishness

Hope everyone wants every creature on this planet to be well 

Let me redefine the word selfish for you. See, there is nothing here in your experience, without involving yourself, so you do not know life without yourself only because you exist, there is life. 

If you didn't exist, what do you know about life? There is simply no possibility, so selflessness is just an idea, in fact, a futile idea, the only way you can exist.  The only way you can exist here is by being selfish.

What sort of selfishness is there

For some, it's all about themselves as an individual, for somebody else it's for themselves and their family, for someone else it's him and their community, for someone else's selfishness for him and race or religion or nationality. 

Coming to ideology

Why are you stingy about your selfishness?

What selfishness means is I want to be well, I don't care what's happening to you.

Why don't you make your selfishness like this, I want every creature on this planet to be well and once you have set this course for yourself, it's not that you are seeking your happiness, but you are seeking the happiness of the entire world

The way the world is going around is it possible to be selfish or is it possible to be selfless

Right now the problem is your selfishness is constipated. Your selfishness should become like this not just my surroundings, I want that the whole damn planet clean and wonderful. That's selfish, I'm like that, I'm fully selfish, you are a little selfish.

  

If you want to bring about a major transformation in any field of life 

To do this, what is needed is if you think this is the right thing to do, you need a relentless application you're not somebody who is going to get disappointed, frustrated, or depressed with what other people do. 

Conclusion 

There is nothing selfless in this world. The question is whether your selfishness is inclusive or exclusive and don't be stingy with selfishness. At least with selfishness, be generous.