Raising a child - Biggest and Easiest issue
I am the only child, I have difficulty handling things in my life by myself because my family takes care of so many things.
How to take charge of my family.
So whether you have one or ten, the human child, is not born like other creatures, the moment you drop them, they run around and find their food and run away and any other creature, let's say a tiger is born 90%, he's ready-made only 10%.
90% of it's all inbuilt for him, everything he needs to know about his life is there within him. With the human child 90%, you have to teach and grow, otherwise, it won't happen.
How to raise your child
To raise your child, you need to set examples for yourselves
If you don't do the right things your children won't learn to do the right things, and your child can come up like an animal, so this is not because of one child attending children, it is the nature of people that how people are attached to their children, their idea of well-being is to pour them with gifts, well if you want your children to be well, you must give them strength in the body, in the mind and the emotion, in energy, if you give them a lot of strength and stability.
How should a child be taken care of
A child is born first and foremost. Things that one should understand are that you did not create a life, you only worked as a passage to deliver her life, so if you understand this only has come through you, it doesn't come from you, it doesn't belong to you. It's just that you have the privilege of nurturing it for a
certain period, but to build a certain friendship with this little life that entered your space now.
You need to understand the child is only small he's everything that you are on a small scale.
What is the best parenting you can do for
your child
So, if a child has arrived and his child is of a certain significance to you, the first and foremost thing that you do is start cleaning yourself up. That is the best parenting you can do for that you fix yourself, you might have lived all kinds of distorted ways but, now a child has come this is the time to straighten up your life, don't worry about straightening up the child's life because he's learning quickly by imitation whatever he's exposed to he is picking up those things all around him in many ways you are the biggest source of imitation for him. The best thing is that you are straight, you are the way you are an idealist whatever you think is the best way to be you.
What happens when a child is learning by imitation
When the child is around because he is learning by imitation, he may be exposed to many other sources of imitation which you cannot control at least what is your part you can do, so the best thing you can do is stop, you come down from your high so high horse of parenting somebody.
Learn to be a simple friend of your child that
Be a simple friend to your child that comes to a situation, where he’s in some kind of confusion or some kind of trouble, you are the first person that he wants to talk to. Parents must look at this, whatever their aspirations, whatever their goals if they want to bring a child, they understand this is a 20-year project, so when you know this, you must have at least 20 years of commitment to our emotions and our thoughts.
Whatever happens between yourself as husband and wife, it should not go to your children
Ideas may change as we are moving on and many of these courts may happen disagreements may happen, and struggles may happen when two human beings are in a certain level of proximity, a certain level of sharing many things. But because we have a 20-year project, we must become pretty committed to at least 20 years.
With this much maturity and commitment, one must have the desire to bear a child, otherwise, it's not needed for you.
Conclusion
You are still a child, you can fight and go away today, and you can disagree with somebody and leave the house today, if you are in that condition, you are still a child, you don't need a child. Asking a child to bear another child is not fair, hence you don't have to bear a child and you'll be doing a great service to the world because right now our only problem is the excessive human population.
Very well 👏 👌 written
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